Final Episode

In this heartfelt final episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) come together to express their gratitude for the journey they've shared through the podcast. They reflect on their growth, both as individuals and as a collective, as they explored topics like intimacy, relationships, sexuality, and boundaries. The episode is a celebration of friendship, sisterhood, and vulnerability, with each host sharing their personal reflections and the positive impact the podcast has had on their lives. They also talk about the importance of love, communication, and the safe space they’ve created for listeners to learn and grow alongside them.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Introduction to the final episode and Jess’s opening remarks about the journey.

[00:02:00] - Ella shares her gratitude for the podcast and how it introduced her to a whole new world of intimacy and boundaries.

[00:05:00] - Lisa reflects on her personal growth and how the podcast allowed her to witness her own evolution in polyamory and communication in relationships.

[00:10:00] - Jess talks about the initial, innocent start of the podcast, with the idea of making kink collars and how it grew into an exploration of relationships and intimacy.

[00:12:00] - Lisa discusses how the podcast has allowed them to be a resource for couples navigating challenges in their relationships.

[00:18:00] - Jess acknowledges the vulnerability in sharing their stories and the power of being open and honest.

[00:20:00] - Ella talks about her role as the “ambassador” of the audience, asking questions that bring clarity to new listeners.

[00:25:00] - The trio reflects on how their journey has impacted their relationships, both individually and collectively.

[00:30:00] - Closing reflections on love, sisterhood, and the future projects that the hosts are excited to embark on.

Transcript

Jess the Playful Domme: 0:12

Hello everyone, and welcome to the final episode of the playful Dom, the Poll Wife and the Virgin Podcast. We wanted to come on and share our love and gratitude and appreciation for our listeners and for each other because this has been such. An amazing, incredible ride and journey that we've been on over these last few years, and such a testament to friendship and girlfriends and, you know, sisterhood and healing wounds and all the things and talking about crazy, wild zany things. So, um, opening it up, which one of you ladies would like to start and shower your gratitude and love?

Ella the Virgin: 0:54

Well, I'm gonna start, I think is, uh, um, this is Ella, um, the Virgin. I just wanna thank you guys so much for, um, showing me a whole nother, whole nother world. I didn't even know this existed, so I, I'm truly from Suburbian Cons. I don't, I don't even know I'm truly. You know, uh, vanilla, I would say. But what you showed me is there's a whole nother world out there, um, of intimacy and sexuality. And, um, the best part about it is boundaries and a be able to have the courage to share boundaries and the boundaries are actually power. And, um, and again, be with me through the ups and the downs and the growth and where I'm at today. I couldn't be happier. So I just wanna thank you for the non being, non-judgmental, for listening, for being patient, and for sharing. Um, authentically your guys' experiences. So it's been an amazing ride. So that's what I'd like to share. So thank you. Thank you again, and thank you listeners for listening, and I hope that we could shed some light. So I think it's been an amazing ride.

Jess the Playful Domme: 1:56

Absolutely.

Lisa the Poly Wife: 1:58

Perfectly said Lisa. It has been an amazing ride. We've had so much fun talking about our lives and what's been going on, and I can say for myself that. Where I am and how I've, uh, changed personally and how I work my relationships. I, I, when I go back and listen to some of the older episodes, I cringe. I was like, oh my gosh, I would never behave that way now. And even I have learned so much and grown so much and it's, you know, it's nice to have witnessed to the fact that we have. Moved through our lives and, and having this, um, opportunity to share what we're experiencing and show the ups and downs of it. Right? I did not do poly well all the time, maybe most of the time in some people's experiences, but honestly, I, I did it openly, um, publicly, which could. Prove embarrassing. But in the end, I'm proud of where I am today and how I've manifested the relationships I have today. And, um, you know, Orion and I literally just spent a week together last, uh, two weeks ago'cause it's our sixth anniversary. And, um, to know that we have this. Story of our lives sort of shared is, is, is wonderful. And I feel like if we've helped people understand different dynamics and different ways of being and different ways of what a marriage might look like, what a relationship might look like, I think we've done such a good service. And I feel, I feel real, I can, I can end now feeling really proud of what we've accomplished and what we've done.

Jess the Playful Domme: 3:47

Oh, I love that. You know how this all started was because Ella was interested in maybe making some kink collars and wanting to hear some stories and what do I, what, what, what do I know? I was the only person closest to her that she knows it's in kink at all. And then I brought in Lisa and you know, just the conversation started from there. So just. From like the, this like innocence, right? Like it came from such an innocent place to start. It wasn't, there wasn't some big, you know, master plan. It was like, well, let's just hop on calls and let's just pretend we're doing a podcast and recorded, see where it goes. And then having these, like his. Hysterical moments like the farting during oral, which may be the crown jewel of our whole podcast is, you know, that, but also talking about our desires and, and you know, how to communicate, how to connect and, you know, unique in different ways. How to bring in the spirit of play into intimacy and into the bedroom. And then how much. Needs to happen before the bedroom in terms of connection and, and communication and boundaries, like Ella said. And, and I, I agree. I have grown and changed so much and having this thread over these last several years of being able to share our stories and our downfalls and the breakdowns and the breakthroughs and, you know, and all of that, and having it be in a way that can be. Honored and, and celebrated. And I thank Ella so much for being the representative of the audience and asking the questions of what does this term mean and what do you mean by this? And how would you go about doing that? And, you know, to, for her to be the ambassador of the audience has been like a super, super important role that's so rich and, and vital because. You know, some of us are used to having these conversations every day, all day. And then for someone who's new and a fly on the wall, it's like, well, what, what does that mean? I don't, I've never heard this term before. Oh my goodness. You know, but I think another thing too with, you know, Lisa, the Lisa, the Polly wife, one of her desires was we, we get to be that, that. Safe porting bridge of, you know, the communication. Like if there's something that maybe you had a challenge, you didn't know how to talk to your partner and bring something up, it's like, well use the podcast. Hey, I listened to this crazy episode of these women. They were talking about this crazy shit. I don't know if you'd be interested, but man, it made me laugh. What do you think? And so for us to, we were willing to be. Out there to be a, a place that could help engage in the conversation and in the growth of the, of the couple and in the community and, and all of that. And you know, I think if nothing else that this, this podcast. Project that we've been on for years is also a testament to love. You know, I, I love Ella so much. I love Lisa so much. I know that they love me. You know, there's been a lot of love in this container, in this group and, you know, and us wanting, I know Ella has said like, she's. She's gained so much out of this that she wants every woman to hear this podcast, every single woman to know.'cause if there's something that they can glean out of it that can improve their relationship or their intimacy, or their sexuality, or their pleasure, or their turn on, or their desire, or gain their needs met, you know, how is that not a win? You know? So. All of that to say I'm so glad that everyone took the time to listen in. If it was for a little bit or a few episodes or the whole ride, like thank you, thank you, thank you for caring and giving us an opportunity to share our voices and our stories. This is not something that I do publicly. I don't speak up like this. Um, it's been very vulnerable for me and, you know, behind closed doors, it. You know, it's easy for me to talk, but to have it be broadcasted out is a different thing. So thank you all for your, um. Grace and your support in listening to us. So thank you so much for listening. Feel free to reach out. Lisa, the Polly wife, she has her website, Lisa the polly wife.com, and a lot of the podcasts will be posted on there as well. So if you wanna continue in on that, she's there. And. The we're all starting new chapters and new projects that we're so excited to bring out into the world. So thank you all so much, so much for listening, and bye for now.